People love to put undue pressures on themselves thinking they need to hit certain milestones by a certain age. Social media is a large factor as we are constantly comparing ourselves to our peers. Johnny has a new car, Bill just bought a new 2000 square foot house, Sally just got a job working for Google. This leads to keeping up with the Joneses where we are doing something in order to show that they have as much money as other people, rather than because we really want to do it. The only bar we need to compare to, is ourselves. If we are not doing better than ourselves, one, two or five years ago then there is cause for concern. But most of the time, we are all improving and becoming better versions of ourselves. We just don't celebrate it due to others' more impressive accomplishments.
The only bar we need to compare to, is ourselves