Being Broke, but Spending like You're Rich

I recently had an experience at work that got me thinking about the relationship between wealth and wastefulness.

I was working with someone who earns a little bit over minimum wage. They don't have much money saved and, by their own circumstances, aren't financially comfortable.

They had takeout for lunch. They had leftovers, but instead of taking them home, they threw them away.

When I asked why, the answer was essentially:

“I don't like left overs.”

That got me thinking.

Because on the surface, this looks like a small decision. Maybe $10 or $15 worth of food. Who cares?

But that's exactly the problem.

They don't have money to burn, so why are they so frivolous with it?

The Opportunity Cost of Carrying Debt

Everything Costs More When You're in Debt

Everything is more expensive when you have debt.

Even if you pay cash or use a debit card, every dollar you spend could have gone toward paying down your credit card, line of credit, or loan. That means every purchase carries an additional opportunity cost: the interest you're continuing to pay because the debt remains.

You don't see that cost printed on the receipt, but it's there.

This is why it's important not to stick your financial head in the sand when it comes to debt. Every time you have discretionary money available, you have a choice. You can spend it, or you can use it to reduce your debt.

If you choose to spend money that could have paid down debt, that debt sticks around longer. The interest keeps accumulating. The cost quietly gets added to your financial burden.

Degrees of Discipline

I recently read a financial article about having two checking accounts—one for recurring expenses and the other for spending money. It was quite smart in that way since you cannot spend past zero when using only a debit card for the spending account. You are essentially giving yourself an allowance each month (or per paycheck). It’s a brilliant way to budget.

The only problem is, you still have access to the other checking account. You can simply transfer more money over or spend directly from it.

This strategy relies on a base level of discipline that a lot of people simply don’t have—hence why budgets fail for them.

I’ve seen this firsthand. I’ve helped people set up automatic investing withdrawals so they could save without thinking about it. The idea was simple: remove the decision, build the habit. But the result? They would log in and withdraw the money anyway, undoing all their progress.

The strategy didn’t fail—the match between the strategy and the person did.

That’s the key: your financial system needs to match your level of discipline.

You can’t assume willpower. You have to design around reality.

Shop for Value: Understanding Profit Margins

Shop For Value: Understanding Profit Margins

Understanding business and commerce isn’t something we’re born with. Most of us don’t intuitively know how much profit someone is making on a transaction — we just see a price tag and decide whether we’re willing to pay it. But once you start learning about profit margins and how much value is being extracted from your purchases, you begin to see the world very differently.

When you understand how much someone is earning off your transaction, you naturally start asking a better question: Am I getting good value for my money, or am I mostly funding someone else’s profits? One of the simplest ways to keep more value in your own pocket is to prioritize low-margin purchases whenever possible.